Chloë Aldam
Parenting Support
Increasing family Connection, Compassion and Cooperation in our increasingly stressful family life.
Coaching
Helping overwhelmed parents transform their connection with themselves & their children.
mBIT Trainer: delivering mBIT Coach courses
Bowen & Neural Touch Therapies
Simple effective treatment focussing on increasing your health & wellbeing.
"You are the Architect of your Family Life"
Kim John Payne, author of Simplicity Parenting
Steve Biddulph: "We’re raising a generation of neurologically damaged kids"
The world is getting exponentially faster as each year passes.
Right now, we need to pause.
To slow this acceleration down.
When children are overwhelmed
they push back (fight or flight)
or fall back (shutdown).
...Getting out the house can become a nightmare
brushing teeth, going to bed, having meals, sibling rivalry,
doing anything together as a family...
Kim John Payne: "The Terrible Too's"
Children are being overwhelmed by
too much, too soon, too young, too fast, too sexy
Have you lost your original parenting hopes and dreams in this ever increasingly complex spiral of life? Frustrations, tiredness, overwhelm...
Or maybe you can see this coming towards you and wish to avoid it.
There's another path.
A Simpler Journey.
Make that choice to change now
Finding balance
creating a working family dynamic
calming the emotional layers in your family.
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Simpler Lives
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Calmer
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More Compassionate
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Greater connection
Imagine: when your child reacts
you know exactly how to feel your way through.
Finding the best way to be in yourself,
helping them find their balance.
I work with parents who desire a calmer, happier family life,
seeking to become a confident parent
far away from the overwhelm and frustration of the past.
"Practice & Practice and then Do!
Chloë is hugely encouraging, responsive and positive. Encouraging a beautiful picture to see when painting one's "Home" experience for all - SO IMPORTANT"
"This is one of, if not the most important jobs of our lives! And CPD in this seems an obvious choice! Chloë is an inspiring hugely informed and dedicated teacher, her sessions are both fun & practical. They provoke mindful thought & questions, & curious inquiry that we as parents can nurture to be the very best we can."
Parenting Course
EMDR
"My 'problem' is literally gone, I can't express how much that means to me"
"My kid doesn't have a dog phobia anymore, we can cycle to our local park and not be housebound."
"I can eat new foods without gagging"
Coaching
"Chloë helped me find the inner answers and resources I didn't even know were there. Now I can calmly focus on what truly needs to be done in a stressful family & work situation"
Coaching & EMDR
"Oh Wow, this is not what I expected. One treatment and my back ache has literally gone overnight"
"What a lovely calming presence you have, always a smile, and your hands always find those muscles that need soothing"
"After 3 treaments, I was surprised to find my hayfever was minimal this year even with a high pollen count. Amazing."
"Those monthly migraines I had seem to be a thing of the past now - I'm so relieved"
"I hadn't realised that my words and self-talk were having such an effect on my body"
"I'm standing taller, breathing better - I feel sooo much better"
Bowen Bodywork
Emotional Self Regulation
When children are at their most difficult & challenging situations happen, they need us to be at our best (or close to it!)
How can we learn to react in a way that reflects our values & expectations? This compassionate approach lifts us out of our old unwanted patterns to allows us to become the parent you want to be.
“A person who is 'Fully Human' stands out from the crowd.
Such individuals seem to function on a more integrated level.
Head, Heart & Spirit are going in the same direction”
Steve Biddulph author of 'Fully Human: A new way of using your mind'
"I have never met a genuinely disobedient child or teen.
What I have encountered are myriad disoriented kids."
Kim John Payne, 'Soul of Discipline'
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Creatively
Compassionately
Courageously.
Being a Parent in the 21st Century!